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Time Code/Show Notes
0.35 In Episode 4 of ‘Lockdown to Lift Off’ Up Limits Mastermind, real estate expert, Jet Xaviers deconstructs why business leaders eat first, not last!
3.45 How can you become a sustainable leader? How can you lead a profitable business without it negatively impacting on yourself and what’s important to you? Health, relationships, mental health, community involvement, social opportunities – are they in alignment?
6.25 One-quarter of business owners rate their mental health as their number one concern. The stats are concerning as Jet outlines the challenges of modern-day small business leaders.
10.45 Can you identify with elements on the Unsustainable Leader Model?
13.50 An unsustainable leader is someone who does not lead themselves. A short bio of Jet’s early years is an extraordinary tale of how a man turned his life around. A man who works hard to maintain harmony and flow in his life.
17.29 So many people are not leading the life they want. We all want a life that is connected and means something.
Are you a default leader? How do you go out and play a good game then come home and give your best to your family, your kids, and your partner?
24.20 Trust and control issues. We all have them and many of us cannot let go. A successful business requires people who can moderate their emotions. Pivot. Change the way they communicate.
Sustainable leaders do not have perfection protection. They don’t hide errors or find excuses. They are not perfect and they don’t pretend to be. They are not 100% hunters – they have a healthy dose of “nurturer”.
28.00 You must recognise and work your way out of the default leadership paradigm. Identify yourself in leadership types; “The Hollywood Syndrome”; “The Hustle & Grind”; “Winning isn’t Everything – It’s the Only Thing”; “Military Leadership”; “Big Boys Don’t Cry Leadership”;
36.20 Making money is the easy part; making yourself a better person is the challenge.
42.20 Time to make authentic decisions for yourself. Jett gets personal on what looked like his brilliant and successful life and drills it down to all that wasn’t authentic. It’s an eye-opener. Can you start again like Jet did?
45.55 Your journey to sustainable leadership begins with three elements.
- Self Awareness. 2 Self Regulation Self Learning
48.30 Ask yourself. Would you buy shares in you? Your personality, your relationship, your parenting, your passions, your business, your growth, your communications? The answer should be yes. Yes, I want to buy more!
52.00 Nick Psaila closes the talk with an emotional account of injury and cardiac crisis that became a true epiphany. It’s a story worth telling with Jet, heavily credited for Nick’s life-shift.
56.00 Good entrepreneurs look after themselves. Their people; family, children, friends. Deal with your demons. Work on yourself. Sustainable leadership is yours with self-awareness.
58.51 If you’d like to learn more about sustainable, modern-day leadership that changes your life, contact ask@upcoach.com.au